Am friendly if I am comfortable with the people I am dealing with..but I am also cautious. To many people I may appear standoffish and unfriendly, but life experience has taught me to be careful. I pay for that sometimes, this girl that used to live down the road from me (very attractive, I crushed on her big time!), well, I summoned the nerve to start waving at her and she seemed pretty happy about it, but it seemed she always expected me to "go first", and I lost my nerve..she moved away last fall, I am still hurting over it......