My dear Dru, I am a libertarian who gives statists of all stripes a **** time :-D
I believe in liberty, equality, and fairness - so I tend to disagree with my conservative friends on many social issues (I just don't think it's any of the government's business) and on issues reqarding things like race or antisemitism (I am a egalitarian - I hate double standards).
But because I also believe in individual liberty, I disagree with my liberal friends on many fiscal and foriegn policy issues. I don't believe the welfare state has helped anyone (indeed, I think it was designed to trap people).
I try to be fair - like anyone else, I fail at times, but I do try.
Anyway, you seem fairminded also :-D
Peace