No, you simply think that those are the two options, because you need them to be in order to validate your position.
I'm not ruling out a creator based on liking the sound of it, I'm ruling it out because it never seemed like a plausible option to begin with. There's nothing emotional, or faith based about it. Unlike believers, I don't start from the desired agenda and work backwards... I start with what makes sense, and see if it's plausible of implausible.
we see natural events happen all the time. Are we to honestly believe that the earthquake in Nepal was the result of a conscious decision? If so, how sick does that make the perpetrator of it? If not, then who is to say that events that sparked the beginning of the universe were not also of a natural, unconscious circumstance as well? And since we already know that earthquakes, tornadoes, hurricanes, even rain & snow storms are not "random", it's obvious that you present a false dilemma.
You say the universe can't be infinite... You may or may not be right. But, if there is an ***, then there has to be a beginning. And a beginning is something that even a creator cannot be immune to. Which means that even the creator had to have had a creator.
One cannot claim to be logical, without holding his "creator" to the same standards applied to the rest of the universe. The very notion of that, defies logic.