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I have a friend of mine who just recently lost her "v-card" to her boyfriend of 9 months. They didn't use protection. They used the pullout method but he precumed in her. She hasn't had her period in 2 months and has CRAZY mood swings. The thought just occurred to us today in math class and we need some answers to have a really close idea. But she's SUPER skinny && has no morning sickness. I have to help her. I need answers for her !! Thank you !!

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Pregnancy test. Planned Parenthood will do them, or go to a grocery store.
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nope, it's that simple. it's possible.
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The pull out method does not work. If he pre ejaculate, there is still sperm present in the semen. Many people have gotten pregnant that way.
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or so they claim, there isn't really any **** scientific proof on the matter save people saying this is what had happened. Unless the guy has super-sperm the chances of someone getting pregnant from pre-cum is tiny. you might as well say using a condom or the pill will get you pregnant also.
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You can get pregnant. You still can get pregnant using condoms and the pill. Condoms break and if you are on antibiotics,it makes the pill less effective. How I know? I'm a woman and know a woman's body.
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And I'm a guy and I know the capabilities of pre-cum...or rather incapabilities.
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The thing about menstrual cycles,ovulation,conception and pregnancy,they are all unpredictable and your taking a chance. If there is some sperm in the semen in the pre ejaculate the chances of getting pregnant are very slim,but still possible. You only need one good,healthy sperm for that to happen.
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yes
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Bit more complicated than that...
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So is getting pregnant from using the pill or any other form of contraception. The chances of getting pregnant form pre cum alone is so minuscule it isn't worth thinking about... and the guy who supplied the precum has some very effective sperm and should donate it regularly.
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Firstly a lot go girls have irregular periods...
Secondly, morning sickness is not compulsory when pregnant.
Thirdly at two months she should have started to develop a belly but then again with some women you ****** even notice even at 5 months.

As for the "precum getting someone pregnant", speculation over it. It is simply lubricating fluid that is issued from a man's ***** when he is aroused. it does however contain sperm from previous ejaculations however the chances of someone actually getting pregnant from it is minuscule. Pre-cum is clear (unlike cum which should be white) and the sperm actually in it should be near to dying anyway. If she does indeed have irregular periods, combine this with the fact pre-cum alone is almost impossible to impregnate someone (beside the odd exception) then i doubt said person has much to worry about.

So yes she could theoretically get pregnant from pre-cum, but then again she could get pregnant if she used the pill or condom or any contraception for that matter. it's a matter of chance...

Why doesn't she simply take a pregnancy test (or 3).
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stay out of the counseling business
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Why? Because you are ignorant on the matter or rather I don't agree with your lack of understanding?

Edit Since You Blocked Me: While I might be arrogant at least I am not ignorant about the subject being talked about. Such as yourself.
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because you're an arrogant ***
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you weren't being arrogant, in my opinion
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I've been called arrogant more times than I wish to care thinking about, so whenever I get called it....I accept it and move on. But, thanks.
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No, it isn't.
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I would love to have a "yes it is: no it isn't" argument but I'll pass.
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yes
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Hmmm... Makes sense. Okay.
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That is one of mans big lie,,"I promise to pull it out" It only takes one of those microscopic little guys to swim up stream and do his job... Why does she not stop guessing and take a pregnancy test??????If she is pregnant, I do hope her and her boyfriend are responsible ****** and take care of this baby, as I cannot afford more taxes to take care of unresponsible peoples ********....
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Some schools do too. So me and her went asked our school nurse and asked and she said no and when we left she said something about ******. She's scared to go anywhere and get anything
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She finally told her mom and her mom is making her take a bunch.
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Yes, you can get pregnant from pre-ejaculate. If she is normally regular she should get a pregnancy test at once. If she didn't know this then she was not responsible enough to be having ***. A baby is very tiny when it is only a few weeks gestation and many women do not begin to show until well into their second trimester. As for morning sickness, many women never get sick at all so it is not a requirement.

Do you know what they call people who use the "pull out " method? Parents.
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My first ***** was a product of this careless action.
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Yes, it is possible to get pregnant from pre ejaculate. Your friend needs a pregnancy test. There must be some ***** somewhere you can talk to. If your school nurse is so ******** as to refuse your friend and call her a name, you need to look elsewhere for help. If your parents or your friend's parents can't help (which is who I would go to first, to be honest), is there a teacher you trust? A school counselor? Your principal?

If for whatever reason it's not possible to ask an *****, take a city bus to a drugstore or a planned parenthood to get a pregnancy test. I strongly recommend planned parenthood, because in addition to giving your friend a free pregnancy test, a counselor can give you good advice and accurate information to protect yourself (and your friend) from pregnancy and STD's.
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She was too embarrassed to ask so I did I'm the "*****" but she told her mom and her mom cried and was very disappointed but she has ways I get the test now. I'm going with her and her boyfriend next week. Thanks for all your help
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You're very welcome!
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Pregnancy test. Planned Parenthood will do them, or go to a grocery store.
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Oh ***! How horrid. Just get a test from the store.
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Why didn't they use protection?

I guess it's possible, but that possibility is really tiny.
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We're only 15 we can't drive yet, and she can't find anyone she can trust with this info. We've been stressing about it and thinking about solutions all day.
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The only real way to tell is by getting a test.

On a other note, you could complain about the action your nurse took as unprofessional. I would complain about the nurses actions if i were you, i know it is daunting and scary but it should be done it might also ensure you a actual test.

Erm...I live in the UK and we have a thing called a guidance teachers, i think in the US you call them councillors? I would advise going to her, if you have a man then I advice finding a female one even if she isn't your designated guidance teacher. Will make it less awkward and more easier, or that's the theory.
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Scott, this is excellent advice.
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Is their an ***** you trust? Like Scott said, a school counselor maybe?
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I know. ANYONE. An aunt or even a friends parent.
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Do you have any friends with drivers licenses? I have a suggestion. It is not ideal, and I would strongly advocate that she tell her parents. However, if all else fails, fake a sore throat and when her mother takes her to the doctor, ask for a private consultation and tell them. They can advise you and will probably give her a pregnancy test.
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No School Nurse should EVER call a ***** a *****. You should report her for that. An RN who is that unprofessional should not be working.
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You can get them for a buck at dollar general. LOL. Thats where my brothers wife first got hers. :D
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If there was sperm in his pre-ejaculate, she can become pregnant. The odds might be 1-100, but it CAN happen. Not only that, how do you know if he actually pulled out in time? You don't and, since it was her first ****** encounter, she doesn't know either. All he needs to do is leave a trail on the way out and she can become pregnant.
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