100% openness faith and trust. Both in God and in eachother. And this is what I mean by trust. If I was in a situation , say on a bridge and disaster was imminent. And my husband told me to jump off that bridge possably to my death, I wouldn't hesitate. Because I have faith, I have trust in him. I trust that he had my back, that he had my best intrests in mind. I know and trust that whatever he saw coming that gave him cause to tell me to jump, that I stood a better chance living off the bridge than on it. And even if I die in that jump, I have faith and trust that I died a more merciful death than what awaited me on that bridge.