I'm 25 too, my husband and I have two boys under the age of 2. We planned one son when we thought we were ready, and the second was a surprise. My husband lost his steady job, and now he is working two part time jobs, hoping to go full time at one of them...
It shouldn't be this **** to find a full time job with benefits and be able to survive on our own.
Also- we are both in school. So eventually that will pay off, but the here and now is no fun.