I've gotten in the center of that before with a close friend and it was **** and she turned on me awhile, she was so blind to her spouse, but we came together again to rebuild our friendship from the ground up after he did it more times to her and she got courage to leave him. I won't do that again unless it's something that is very dangerous where she or her ******** could be in harm's way, then yeah, you bet I would!