I am single dad who raised a daughter by myself. I am now 50yrs old and my daughter is 24. My daughters mother abandoned her and me, and left me to raise her from little baby til she was grown woman. I did have the help of paturnal grandmother. Its hard for single man to raise a girl. It was tuff, but she taught me alot. I am a christian, a southern baptist. I do believe in spare the rod spoil the child. I do believe in spankings. I spanked my daughter only 3 times in her whole life. The last time I spanked her was at 10yrs old. I did not spank her bare bottom, always with clothing on. I was raised and brought up to be very modest, and modest I still am. Nudity was never allowed outside of my bedroom, or bathroon. Girls and boys were never allowed to be seen naked infront of each other. If that happend my dad would spank. I was always spanked with clothing on. When I became a teenager I was real modest, and the last thing I wanted was to be seen naked by a woman. I was raised by my paturnal grandparents, and my grandmother is a nurse, but she always respected my dignity and never seen me naked as a teen. Back to my daughter. I sorta eased up on the modesty thing when she was born, I mean I had to take care of her. But, the last time I seen her naked was at 10yrs old. She beca...
I am single dad who raised a daughter by myself. I am now 50yrs old and my daughter is 24. My daughters mother abandoned her and me, and left me to raise her from little baby til she was grown woman. I did have the help of paturnal grandmother. Its hard for single man to raise a girl. It was tuff, but she taught me alot. I am a christian, a southern baptist. I do believe in spare the rod spoil the child. I do believe in spankings. I spanked my daughter only 3 times in her whole life. The last time I spanked her was at 10yrs old. I did not spank her bare bottom, always with clothing on. I was raised and brought up to be very modest, and modest I still am. Nudity was never allowed outside of my bedroom, or bathroon. Girls and boys were never allowed to be seen naked infront of each other. If that happend my dad would spank. I was always spanked with clothing on. When I became a teenager I was real modest, and the last thing I wanted was to be seen naked by a woman. I was raised by my paturnal grandparents, and my grandmother is a nurse, but she always respected my dignity and never seen me naked as a teen. Back to my daughter. I sorta eased up on the modesty thing when she was born, I mean I had to take care of her. But, the last time I seen her naked was at 10yrs old. She became real modest, and didnt want me to see her naked, and I respected her. She was a normal teenager. She had her moments like all teenagers do, but when it came to punishment all I had todo was ground her, take privilages away. I even took her drivers lics away a couple of times and it worked for her. She was all in all a good kid. She made good grades in school. With my daughter even though she was modest, we did have a very good father daughter relationship. We had open dialog with each other concerning ***, boys, body changes and funchions. If my daughter ever need my help with something concerning her bottom or private areas, I would have helped her, but she had my grandmother to help her, so she didnt need me to help with that areas of her body. My daughter is now a registard nurse. She is very successful in life. Her and her husband both are registard nurses. I would never have spanked her bare bottom never. I respected her modesty as I would any woman. I find it dishearting that a dad would strip away his daughters modesty if she wasnt comfortable with dad seeing her naked. Like wise a mother todo the same thing to her teenage son. I am not judging anyone, but I believe if done wrong it could distroy a loving relationship with your children into their adult hood. With me personally, I was beat and sexually abused by mother until I was 13yrs old. That is when my father and mother divorced, and was ordered by court to live with my paturnal grandparents. My dad was also in my life. But, with my mother I never visited her and any kind of relationship with her after that. I did attend her funeral in 1995. I was told that she cried alot and had alot of emotional pain due to that fact that her sons didnt have a relationship with her, and was never allowed to any contact what so ever with her grandchildren including my daughter. I only had two other brothers and we were all physically and sexually abused by her. In my heart I forgave her, but scares still remain to this day. I promised myself and my family that the cycle of abuse would end with me, and I would never do that to my daughter or anyone else.
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